DON'T SAY YES WHEN YOU NEED TO SAY NO


I have never had the problem of saying no to people, I said no so much growing up you would think it's the first word I learned to say. I was never a pushover it's not apart of my character never was, but I had a hard time saying no to my thoughts. I let them push me to do things that I was not proud of and to say things I know I would regret. I said yes to every lie I fed myself and every insecurity and doubt so you see saying to others was easy but saying no to myself was the battle.

I struggled with saying no to myself. There was no self discipline, no self control because really I was controlled by my ability to say yes and to cater to my every need. I kept saying yes when I needed to say no. I kept feeding the monster when I needed to starve it. No is such a powerful word, it's signifies the end of something but if not used right it can put you in bondage. Saying yes to myself had me on a lockdown.

I thought of ways to starve my "needs" but really what I needed to understand is that I need to stop saying yes when I need to say no. I eventually understood it and took charge of myself. For once my mind wasn't thinking for me I was thinking for myself. No is a powerful word but it's definitely something we all can't live without.
Self discipline starts when you learn to say no to those things that you once said yes to.













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2 comments

  1. Wow! What a powerful post! I loved it!
    So well written and really an important lesson for us all.
    Also I LOVE your style!!! X Metiya

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